Red Flags When Pursuing a Girl

Yesman or good friend
Every time you think "I can eventually touch her." From time to time, you help her fix the computer, fix the water pipe, fix the TV, buy gifts, be her driver, and be responsive whenever she needs. Even if she breaks up with her boyfriend, you would run over to comfort her. Yes, this is the deadly advantage of sweet guys. And yes, sometimes, some guy succeeded in this way. However, such kind of date relationships usually don't end very well, because with time flies, one can hardly persist in the same attitude as it is when you first go out. A person will change.

Naturally engage with her when you are actually not familiar with each other
Don't keep looking for topics to get closer to her. For example, saying that you have been to the same elementary school or middle school, saying that you have common classmates, have mutual friends with her, but you're not familiar with her at all. This is very typical in so many guys. Even I have met them. I once heard a guy telling me that he knows my parents and saw me once in some bus, but I never took that bus. This is really awkward. Sometimes, it can be scary as well.

Being straightforward is nice, but too straightforward
It's not a bad thing, but the old-fashioned hit-up line: "I fell in love with you at first sight", "You look lonely and I will spend time with you tonight", "You must be hurt by your ex-boyfriend so that you dare not fall in love", "Let's go dating tonight", "You look exactly like my next girlfriend", "I want to have children with you". These hit-up lines are really lame, really, even for one night stand or adult dating.

Try to be funny, but the joke gets cold in the end…
Humor is a very good thing, but it is best to use a light humor. Trying to be humorous is the least humorous behavior. Don't make yourself look too funny, pretend to be a clown, keep telling cold jokes. These are not funny at all. Never explain a joke, especially when the other person doesn't know how to reply. Otherwise, it will make yourself as scary as the clown in Batman!

Don't play the poor cards with your girl
It's not bad to be pitiful, but if you pretend to be too pitiful, you will be really pitiful in the end. "I've never been loved", "My single time is so coincidentally the same as my age is", "I've been cheated constantly, and I'm so hurt that I'm tired of woman", "I don't have hot water at home, can you let me go to your house for a hot bath?" If you adopt this method to get a girl, you will only be a pathetic guy who lives by receiving charity.

Follow the book exactly
It's a good thing to read books or guiding articles like this one you are reading, but if you really just follow the instructions above and don't know how to accommodate to the circumstances, you will fall heavily. So this is the most important tip. Learn to loop.